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Do you have tattoos? Does your man have tatoos? Did you get your tattoo after you were together? Was your man in favor of it? Did he get his after you were together? Were you in favor of it? How can someone introduce their spouse to the idea of letting them get a tattoo?? Any serious stories or help is appreciated.
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Do you have tattoos? No.
Does your man have tattoos? Yes, 17.
Did you get your tattoo after you were together? NA
Was your man in favor of it? NA
Did he get his after you were together? 4 of them were after, he had the rest when we met.
Were you in favor of it? Yes.
How can someone introduce their spouse to the idea of letting them get a tattoo?? Let them help in the choosing process.
We've been married 8 years, and he had 13 tattoos when we met. I'm not much into heavy tattooing, but at the time, it wasn't my call on what he did with his body. He got another one while we were dating, so I either had to accept it, or break it off. I chose to accept him because by then, I already cared deeply for him.
A few months after we got married, he wanted another one. We went together to the shop, and he let me pick out a tattoo for him, and the spot to put it on. My only limitations were that it had to be something similar to what he already had done, nothing off the wall. So I found a smaller design, and we decided on the back of his left wrist. I sat in the room to watch the entire process, and the artist explained everything as he did it.
Seeing all the "normal" people come and go from the store, talking to the artists, and seeing how much pleasure my husband gets from a new piece was the final decision maker for me. I set a few rules of my own (no sleeves on arms, legs, or other full body coverage) and ever since, we've agreed what and where to put each one. That way I know he's not coming home with something offensive to me (like a pot leaf) on a place that I don't want to see one (like on his neck). So far, it's worked pretty well for us.
Talk to your wife about what you want, where you want it, and the reasons why you are thinking of one. Take her with you to your local shops. Get her educated, involved, and ask her opinions. While you don't need her permission, you don't want a fight either. So make sure you remind her that it is your body, and ask for what she would mind the least to look at on a daily basis. Don't have the "I'm getting one whether you like it or not" attitude, but instead have the "I would like you to help me pick one so that it means something to both of us, and it's something we will both enjoy" attitude. She will take the hint that this is something serious for you, and maybe be more open to it.
Do you have tattoos? No.
Does your man have tattoos? Yes, 17.
Did you get your tattoo after you were together? NA
Was your man in favor of it? NA
Did he get his after you were together? 4 of them were after, he had the rest when we met.
Were you in favor of it? Yes.
How can someone introduce their spouse to the idea of letting them get a tattoo?? Let them help in the choosing process.
We've been married 8 years, and he had 13 tattoos when we met. I'm not much into heavy tattooing, but at the time, it wasn't my call on what he did with his body. He got another one while we were dating, so I either had to accept it, or break it off. I chose to accept him because by then, I already cared deeply for him.
A few months after we got married, he wanted another one. We went together to the shop, and he let me pick out a tattoo for him, and the spot to put it on. My only limitations were that it had to be something similar to what he already had done, nothing off the wall. So I found a smaller design, and we decided on the back of his left wrist. I sat in the room to watch the entire process, and the artist explained everything as he did it.
Seeing all the "normal" people come and go from the store, talking to the artists, and seeing how much pleasure my husband gets from a new piece was the final decision maker for me. I set a few rules of my own (no sleeves on arms, legs, or other full body coverage) and ever since, we've agreed what and where to put each one. That way I know he's not coming home with something offensive to me (like a pot leaf) on a place that I don't want to see one (like on his neck). So far, it's worked pretty well for us.
Talk to your wife about what you want, where you want it, and the reasons why you are thinking of one. Take her with you to your local shops. Get her educated, involved, and ask her opinions. While you don't need her permission, you don't want a fight either. So make sure you remind her that it is your body, and ask for what she would mind the least to look at on a daily basis. Don't have the "I'm getting one whether you like it or not" attitude, but instead have the "I would like you to help me pick one so that it means something to both of us, and it's something we will both enjoy" attitude. She will take the hint that this is something serious for you, and maybe be more open to it.
Can a woman with a big tattoo on her one arm be straight and not bisexual?
George
Answer
Uh, really?
Ok, just because a woman has a tattoo, be it big or small, does not mean that they are either gay, straight, or bi-sexual. Getting a tattoo is not a sign of someone coming out, or anything like that. I know several women who have tattoos, some only one tattoo, some a lot, and none are gay or bi-sexual.
I donât know much about sexual orientation, I know Iâm straight, I have tattoos, and Iâm a guy. But, I am pretty sure that if someone is gay or bi-sexual or straight, itâs just the way it happened, its been there since the beginning. You cannot choose it, nor can you be âturnedâ gay or bi-sexual by getting a tattoo.
Iâve gotten tattoos before, and theyâve never âturnedâ me gay, or made me have those thoughts. In fact, the more ink I get, the more attracted I am to women with heavy ink.
Uh, really?
Ok, just because a woman has a tattoo, be it big or small, does not mean that they are either gay, straight, or bi-sexual. Getting a tattoo is not a sign of someone coming out, or anything like that. I know several women who have tattoos, some only one tattoo, some a lot, and none are gay or bi-sexual.
I donât know much about sexual orientation, I know Iâm straight, I have tattoos, and Iâm a guy. But, I am pretty sure that if someone is gay or bi-sexual or straight, itâs just the way it happened, its been there since the beginning. You cannot choose it, nor can you be âturnedâ gay or bi-sexual by getting a tattoo.
Iâve gotten tattoos before, and theyâve never âturnedâ me gay, or made me have those thoughts. In fact, the more ink I get, the more attracted I am to women with heavy ink.
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