Boyfriend wants to get a tattoo but i really dont want him to?

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Rose

ok so me and my bf have been dating for 2 years. he wants to get a tattoo on his chest. now im not against tattoos i have one myself on wrist of a gemini symbol and am looking to get a small chinese year of the dog symbol on the back of my neck. he had mentioned before how he wants to get a yin yang on his shoulder, i told him i thought it would be sexy and am still 100% by his side for him to get a tat on his shoulder. lately he's told me he wants to get a tattoo of an S *his middle initial* on his chest on his left pec. *he has no tattoos atm btw* for whatever reason i have always 99% of the time disliked tattoos on the chest area, i dont know why. i think a small one on a womans breast looks great but on some men i just dont really them. and he wants a fairly large bold S on his chest and i just really dont want him to. i think it would be quite ugly. if he got it on his back i still think it would be sexy. but i just think the idea of him having a tattoo on his chest is a horrid idea. i dont know what to do i love him to death but i just really cant like the idea of him having a tattoo on his chest ;~;
*correction im ok with some breast tattoos on women if they are fairly classy and not gaudy. i dont think all breast tattoos are great.

Answer
Remind him about the differences in aging between the two areas. If he gets fat or doesn't maintain his muscle mass (assuming he may have pecs... which ultimately help to make chest tattoos look better, since I do also agree that they can be trashy) his chest will change shape, stretch, and ruin the tattoo more easily than a bonier area, such as his upper back.

Most people don't think about how drastically the location of their tattoo can affect its aging process, generally because people want to believe that they will maintain their body and that the location will have little affect. - Either that or because they don't want to accept the fact that a tattoo can look pristine today and end up looking dull, faded, stretched and wrinkled.

Sometimes people genuinely don't care how it will look later, because "all of me will look bad" (not necessarily true, but still). In this case, I would inquire as to why his middle name is so important to him, and why it has to be so flashy.

Also, how long has he wanted this tattoo? And how long did he want the yin-yang? If he gave up the yin-yang before more than a few months were up, you should remind him that this idea may be the same sort of temporary want.

Do you have tattoos you regret?

srilookatm

A way back while loaded I got a tattoo of the yin yang on my neck. In the seventies I got the Raisin Bran Sun on my left butt cheek but that never bothered me. This one is out there constantly for the world to see. Some mornings when I get up to shave and look in the mirror I just wish it would go away. Many of my friends like it and say it suits me cause I was l always somewhat of an outlaw mystic weird one.

I suppose I could start wearing scarves all the time but then women would start asking my opinion about their hair, or clothing suggestions, or interior design for their living rooms.

Do you regret getting tattooed?

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Not really.

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