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what can i do to improve my personality?

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Life tips/advice:
BE MORE POSITIVE. think good thoughts about life and the people you are around.
have hope.
if you can stay positive then you will generate more positive outcomes and experiences,
develop your strengths, study and learn more,
inspire others to be more.
call you family and just say i love you.
imagine that you have been just released from 20 years in prison. now you are free again... what will you do?
and how do you feel about everything in your life?, be grateful, give thanks. become spiritual.
believe in God ( whichever you chose) but believe.
help people.
teach someone.
spend some quiet time alone and reflect on your needs for a change
get physically fit/work out or run regularly.
learn some interesting or funny expressions to add to your lexicon, (I love old cowboy expressions) "don't put lipstick on a pig!) when some one suggests wasting more time/effort/money on a losing battle.
learn to say "I'm sorry", when you really are.
listen to criticism, fight the urge to take it personally.
stay focused. try to set some goals for yourself that you can achieve. let go of losers in your life.
Floss.
get some sunshine ( don't listen to the "skin" cancer scare tactics.)
stop bitching.
try to see the other persons side.
call your good friends-"brother/sister." when you greet them.
slow down. don't hurry so much. change your routine sometimes.
go out to dinner.
if your a woman- wear MAKE UP. ( NO, YOU really DON'T LOOK THAT GOOD "ALA NATURAL") never, ever get into the habit of wearing "sweats" or "comfy, baggy , or sloppy clothes..the rest of us don't care if your "comfortable". look your best, you deserve it! this sometimes will include wearing high heels. DO NOT CUT YOUR HAIR too short,
do not own a cat, much less several.
sexy=enthusiasm. not looks or your hip/bust size
talk dirty when the timing is right.
drive faster.
smile more.
give your mate at least 30 minutes when they return home to "unwind" before you launch into your mono log about your day.
stop obsessing about your weight. you look great.
read a book, stop watching TV so much.
God created the woman last. The highest form of all creations. do not forget that you deserve good things.

Men
no come overs. wear better clothes, more listening, talk less bull crap, no sideways baseball caps or baggy pants-please!
be kind to your girl. respect her father. don't ever send emails when your drunk or high. stop changing your hairstyle.
exercise, eat meat, talk to your kids, listen to your wife.
cool it on the piercings
read woman's magazines if you can- you'll learn allot.
let your Mother go. forgive your Dad, if you need to.
its OK to cry, but remember that women don't like to see you bleed all over yourself.
slow down on the pornography if you are alone allot.
for your mate-invest in a vibrator and ask her how to use it.
DO NOT WORK WEEKENDS. Play on Sat and Sun.
Don't waste money adding junk like flashy rims to your car.
start an IRA if you don't have one.
send your spouse to college.
have the guts to wear a kilt, at least once in your lifetime.
develop your sense of humor.
don't tattoo too much-make sure you can still look respectable in a suit- own at least one nice suit.
get your clothes tailored-its worth every penny.
read a newspaper once in a while.
develop your own values and what they mean to you. ask your best friend to tell you straight.
call your friend on his bull crap when you see it.
find something interesting to do besides sports or work.
organize your bills and paperwork.
do not wear a plastic watch or vinyl shoes.
listen to talk radio (once in a while) instead of music in your car. passing out or throwing up means you need to master your party limits. don't be sneaky or develop "secrets" in your life. you should be "happy" to be alone before you'll be "happy" with a mate.
if a woman leaves you, its usually for the best, anyway.
don't let your Dog sleep on your bed.
at least launder the towels, if your married.
groom your eyebrows.

I believe that with some simple advice most problems are in fact not that grave.

How to get a girlfriend if I've tried almost everything?




Samuel


I'm 21 and am going to be a Junior in college this fall and I've never had a girlfriend. I thought that once I got to college after high school my luck would change, nope. It seems that every girl at my school parties and gets wasted. I'm not about that. I don't party, drink, smoke, all that crap. I am social though, I have a close circle of friends. It just seems all the girls at my school are drunks or taken.

I've also tried the online route, that is even worse. I didn't know girls could be so picky! They all seem to want one or more of the following: country boys, military men, tall guys, guys with tattoos, guys with piercings, etc etc. I'm not any of those things! I send very nice, non creepy messages and I never get anything back. I've tried all the free dating apps (Skout, OkCupid, POF, Kik date, others I can't remember the name to). I know of paid sites (Match, Christian Mingle, etc) but I really don't feel like spending $25-30 a month to get no responses.

I'm 5'3", which is short so I feel like a lot of guys have advantage over me. I have a low muscle tone and not an extremely attractive face. I'm not fat or unhealthy, it's just my build. It doesn't help that a lot of people (especially adults) treat me like I'm 13-14 based on my appearance. For example, all last year the cashiers in my dining center would say "hey buddy!" in a tone like how you talk to your
et or a 10 year old. My friends had a good laugh about it, which is fine, but it kinda hurt my self esteem at the same time. I'm funny, caring, smart, and I love talking. I'm just at a dead end now with girls. Now all of my friends are in relationships so I've been feeling a little more lonely than usual I guess. And no, they don't have available friends. I'm an optimist, and I believe things will work one day. I'd just appreciate advice on what to do. No offense, but please don't suggest clubbing, frat parties, etc. Thanks for reading, and sorry it was a little long.



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Try going for shorter girls. I'm only about 5'0", very dainty and petite, and I love guys who aren't super tall. When I date tall/average height guys I feel uncomfortably tiny and delicate. It's really awkward and difficult to hug/kiss them, which is why I tend to go for short guys.
I know how it feels, getting mistaken for a little kid. -_- I'm a year younger than you, and a lot of people assume I'm an extremely shy, short thirteen year old girl who's trying to look cool. My friends find it hilarious that they call me short, even though they assume I'm younger than I am. It sucks.
Anyways, I promise that someday you'll meet a girl who's a bit on the short side too. It may be sooner than you think; try to say hi to someone new. next thing you know, you might have a whole new circle of friends. And trust me, she'll worship the fact that you make her feel normal by not crushing her spine when you two hug. Also, people tell me that short guys dating short girls is the most adorable thing ever.
It's hard to find someone who accepts your height, but trust me. There are LOTS of girls who like shorter guys out there, they just won't admit it.
Be confident, okay? You sound like you have an amazing personality, which is cool because a lot of short guys are total assholes.
There isn't much other advice I can give you, just keep in mind: CONFIDENCE IS KEY
Stay amazing.




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