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Athena
A little over a month ago I was on tumblr and whatnot and I saw a girl with a side-shave. if you don't know what that is, it's when the side of your hair is shaved. I thought it was cool so I asked my mom if I could do it and my mother being the close-minded woman she is, said no. I honestly contemplated it over a series of weeks and I pulled my hair back several times to see what it would look like and I honestly really loved it. I shaved it off but the thing is, I did like under my hair so it's not obvious at all unless you pull my hair back. Today my mom saw it and she freaked out and started hitting me (not hard or anything) and screaming at me. I know I shouldn't have done it but my mom is one of the close-minded people that thinks they're always right and how you should never have tattoos, ears piercing, black nail polish is the devil's shit, and all that kind of bull. Then when we get home she starts screaming about how I probably do drugs and shit and I HAVE NEVER DONE DRUGS. Even though all of my friends do and they constantly me offer it, I always say no because I know disappointed my parents would be if they found out. I shaved the side of my head, so?!?!? It's hair right? It'll grow back. It's not like I went and smoked a bunch of weed and got arrested.
Now my mom is screaming at me and she won't even allow me to talk to her because every time I try to get a sentence out of my mouth, she starts screaming. I had plans to meet my favorite actor ever on friday and my mom knows how much this means to me because he's my favorite actor in the entire world and I finally scored tickets to meet him and my mom won't let me go now. It's honestly a bunch of bull and I just want to know how I can get her to forgive me and allow me to go? I'm 16 by the way and i kind of just read over this, I swear i'm not as bratty as this is making me seem. I'm all in all, a really good kid and I get good grades and this is probably the 2nd mistake i've made in my entire teenage years.
I honestly didn't think my mom would freak out this much about my hair and hasdifhaskdfh asd,. How do I apologize to her?
Thanks in advance!
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Sounds just like my mom.
I know they might seem unreasonable sometimes, but you just have to stick through it for a few more years. You can have all the freedom you want when you turn 18, but as long as you're still a teenager you'd be wise to follow your parents' orders, no matter how stupid they may seem.
Life lesson aside, the best thing to do is calmly (and I really mean CALMLY) apologize to your mom, promise it'll never happen again, give her some sad sob story about how you just wanna talk to her normally again, and hope she forgives you. Trying to argue or reason with her will only make it worse for both of you.
Sounds just like my mom.
I know they might seem unreasonable sometimes, but you just have to stick through it for a few more years. You can have all the freedom you want when you turn 18, but as long as you're still a teenager you'd be wise to follow your parents' orders, no matter how stupid they may seem.
Life lesson aside, the best thing to do is calmly (and I really mean CALMLY) apologize to your mom, promise it'll never happen again, give her some sad sob story about how you just wanna talk to her normally again, and hope she forgives you. Trying to argue or reason with her will only make it worse for both of you.
Why do some say All American Muslim not accurate?
Taylor
I talk a little on tumblr with an American Muslim woman and she said the show is not accurate and she won't watch it. Just wondering the point of view of others.
And sorry if this is in the wrong section, wasn't sure where to put it.
I thought people would be mature enough to answer this without me asking them to but I guess not. stop judging. 9/11 wasn't because they were muslim. There are bad people in every religion. Grow up.
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Oh my goodness, I watched like 10 minutes.
It was horrible!
The fat lady was exposing her leg up to the hip to show off a tattoo she had.
Her eyebrow and I think her nose were pierced. She didn't wear hijaab in any aspect--her sleeves were to her shoulder, her hair was exposed, her entire body was practically exposed. her parents didn't care, but her husband had to miraculously be Muslim. The man didn't even know what shahadah was!!! He blindly accepted Islam. He did no research himself.
They had dogs, too!
It was terrible, so so terrible!
Oh my goodness, I watched like 10 minutes.
It was horrible!
The fat lady was exposing her leg up to the hip to show off a tattoo she had.
Her eyebrow and I think her nose were pierced. She didn't wear hijaab in any aspect--her sleeves were to her shoulder, her hair was exposed, her entire body was practically exposed. her parents didn't care, but her husband had to miraculously be Muslim. The man didn't even know what shahadah was!!! He blindly accepted Islam. He did no research himself.
They had dogs, too!
It was terrible, so so terrible!
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