How to get over jealousy and insecurity?

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Hayley

I'm engaged. I love my fiancé deeply and he treats me better than anyone I've ever. There's one issue, and that's my insecurity. I feel like I'm ruining everything. I'm not generally an insecure person, it's because of things that happened.. But I need advice on how to get over them before I completely ruin things. He has apologized for everything, changed it all, and genuinely feels bad. These are the things that have happened, in no particular order.

1) he told me a story about cheating on his ex with her best friend. Months later, he made a sexual comment to MY best friend on Facebook.

2) until I finally blew up about it, he was always going on and on about what he liked in women.. None of which I had. Example - I've heard about how he has a thing for women in glasses about a billion times. I don't wear glasses. New Years Eve, I made myself into everything he says he wants (except tattoos).. And I got the biggest reaction out of me. He talked about how beautiful i was, he was all over me all night. His contact picture for me on his phone is similar.. He claims it's the only picture I've sent him but I've sent him tons, but just one with glasses, my hair up, etc.

3) once, he blatantly checked out tattooed girls online in front of me. Verbally judging each one as hot or not. He has apologized for doing it.

4) this is the big one. There was another girl in the picture, and I kinda consider what he was doing as an emotional affair. He was texting her first thing in the morning and last thing at night every single morning and saying he had promised her he would. He initially tried to hide the nature of his relationship with her.. But it finally came out that he had a thing for her for a super long time. And when he was telling me about it, it was clear he still did. My thought about it was that I was being put second. Why wouldnt he want to talk to ME first and last? tHe also blatantly refused to make me the same promise

I want to get over this. :(

Answer
This is a good opportunity to try a threesome with your fiancee and the girl in the picture. Threesomes are a great way to sort out your feelings.

Whats a good place to have a tattoo but hide from my parents?

allie

Im a 17 year old girl and my ex girlfriend is planning on doing my tat, she's really good. she does her own. i want one so bad. but where could i get it thats not that noticeable?

Answer
Okay. Get it on your ass, duh. They'll never see it there!

On another note, or perhaps the exact same note since the above is facetious, please don't get a tattoo from your friend. Not only do you risk getting hepatitis, (which I know you don't really care about because you're a stupid teenager and you think you're invincible), it WILL look like shit simply because you are seventeen right now and any decisions you make you will regret within a year or so.
I don't care if your friend is the damn Michelangelo of tattooing. It'll suck. Just wait until you've been working for a while and live on your own and when the time comes you can ask yourself, "do I want this tattoo so badly that I'm giving up the money I've worked so hard for?" THEN you are mature enough to get a tattoo.

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